Drawing a Line...?

Yesterday I was having a discussion with a girl. Let me go ahead and say that she is a Christian who actually works at her church in a daycare sort of place for children. When we were talking about what we plan on doing after high school is over she told me she either wanted to go into Ministry or EMS (Emergency Medical Services). So, obviously she has a very Christian background. But during our conversation we started talking about something that, until we talked about it, I didn't realize could possibly have so many different ideas and philosophies about it. What we were talking about was sex.

Both of us believed that sex was to be between one man and one woman. Although we believed it for different reasons. This was pretty clearly understood between us. But where we started having some different ideas and philosophies was in the blurry line that is between sex and not-sex. I started talking about how it was important to "draw a line" somewhere so that when you got there you would know not to cross it. She believed that the only way she could live was to not have a line and to venture wherever she felt until she knew she wouldn't be able to go any further; until she knew that God was telling her to stop. I thought that didn't sound like a very good idea, but it brought this question up in my mind about how many teenagers or young adults that there might be out there who might have similar beliefs. People who might have beliefs and philosophies that God actual wants them to "test the waters of sex" if you will.

Before I really shout out the conclusion that I've come to I just wanted to read some of your philosophies on this matter. I want to have a conversation of what you've come to believe, and then I'll unpack what I believe. Do you believe that drawing a line is important? If not, why do you believe that? If so, where do you draw it and why do you draw it there? Let the painting begin...

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A New Medium for the Painting

Hello! I know that I'm probably the most annoying person ever. But I've found a better medium for discussion than a blog. And that it a Google Group. So, I've started using the Google Groups for Our Painting. Please join me as we discuss our faith.

http://groups.google.com/group/our-painting

The Truth About Truth

What exactly is a lie? I mean, I know that it is not telling the truth, and that it is a "no-no" in the scriptures, but are there certain "lies" that are okay to tell? For example, if you are having a surprise party for a friend or family member, and you can't tell the person about it or say that there isn't going to be a party to conceal it, is that okay? And if you are joke-lying or being sarcastic or something, is that okay or should you avoid all of those things completely?